
If you’ve ever had someone touch your perineum (the spot between your balls and butthole), you know there’s a lot of feeling back there, so make sure you don’t knee someone in the face as they make their way to your b-hole. Wash your ass before you ask someone to venture back there, and then relax and enjoy what’s basically an all-encompassing blow job. Rimming is a great place to start with a partner because, unlike other forms of assplay, it doesn't require much advanced preparation. And they are prepping for it-they’re just doing so off screen. Plus, porn stars are people who are likely having anal sex multiple times a week. Don’t try to emulate anything you’ve seen on Pornhub! You’re just asking to get hurt, and nothing is more discouraging than a supposedly pleasurable sex act that turns painful (assuming you’re going for pleasure, that is). Glickman's first point? Remember that you’re not filming a porno. He says the most frequently asked questions he gets from straight men are: “Will it be painful?” “Will it be messy?” and “Does this make me gay?” We’ll get into this more later, but the answers to those burning questions are: it shouldn't be, not necessarily, and no, of course not.ĭr.
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Charlie Glickman, PhD, who literally wrote the book on prostate pleasure to explain just how to enjoy this under-appreciated erogenous zone. So, I talked with Sex and Relationships coach Dr. Let’s focus on the how.Įven though people have been sticking various and sundry items up their b-holes for centuries-google “Moche ceramics anal sex” or “ancient Rome butt stuff”-in more recent history, it hasn’t been as common for straight men to partake. Science is currently trying to figure out why so-called prostate orgasms feel so intense-but, frankly, the why is unimportant. Sometimes referred to as the “male G-spot” the prostate can deliver next-level orgasms when it’s properly stimulated.

For those with penises, it can be especially enjoyable, thanks to the special little walnut-shaped mass of nerves called the prostate situated under the bladder that you can “access” if you go in through the backdoor. In what’s been a great development for butt-enjoyers everywhere, anal sex is now a lot less taboo than it used to be.
